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Watching You Watching Me

The idea of voyeurism is sexy. Watching someone else in the most intimate position makes it ten times hotter than normal. That’s the reason that porn is a billion-dollar business. You get to watch people more attractive than you do things that you are unable to do (or are just too grossed out to do). It’s like the yawning thing. One person yawns and moments later, the whole room is yawning. Well, watching other people having sex makes us want to have sex too.

Being watched can be just as sexy as doing the watching. You feel like you’re having sex with both your partner and the person watching. You feel like you are sharing something special with your audience. But here’s the catch: I’m not a porn star. I don’t look like a porn star. I don’t work out like a porn star. I’m not flexible like a porn star. And I certainly don’t get paid like a porn star. The idea of having other people watch me at my most intimate moments doesn’t get me all excited. All I can think about is how my ass looks in that position. Or if my vagina’s weird in comparison to the plucked and bleached versions that normally appear on screen. Or if my blowjob technique is as graceful as Jenna Jameson's. With all that going through my head, how can you possibly enjoy yourself?

While I definitely enjoy the watching part of voyeurism, I don’t really like to be watched. It makes me feel self-conscious and part of the reason sex is so much fun is because inhibitions go out the window. Having an audience makes it harder to forget yourself and do what comes naturally. So while I enjoy talking about sex, actually having sex myself and even watching you have sex, I can’t invite you to watch me. Sorry. Guess you’ll just have to buy a porno instead....wriiten by P.S. Jones



Voyeurism is one of those fetishes that can be totally thrilling to some and a total bore to others. Obviously, voyeurism is alive and well in America. Ask any topless bar owner. But voyeurism can be taken to a much higher level when in private and watching someone undress, pleasure themselves, or even have sex with another. I know that I love to watch a woman masturbate, and I know of a lot of guys that like to watch their girlfriend or wife having sex with someone else.

I have watched and I have been watched. Frankly, I enjoy it a lot more when I am the one being watched. Several couples have invited me over to have sex while the man watches or photographs or videotapes. I actually find it pretty thrilling to be permitted to have sex with another guy's girlfriend or wife while he sits on the sidelines and watches the show. I also find that I put extra effort into the sex because I feel I am being held to a higher standard. It is my competitive nature to try to impress. Of course, agreeing to have someone watch or photograph is a small price to pay for no-strings sex with a beautiful woman.

In the reverse situation; however, I am not sure I would like to watch someone having sex with a woman I am passionate about. I think that I would have jealousy issues and be very insecure about whether the man was doing a better job than I do. I do get very turned on watching women dominate men, and I could pleasure myself easily watching a fetish scene that involves BDSM with a woman taking control of a man. Of course, there is always the girl on girl play that I find infinitely watchable.

So voyeurism can be a lot of fun. Watching can be almost as fun as doing, and sometimes being watched can add a sexy, competitive dimension that improves my performance....written by Cliff Hodges

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Double Penetration – Why We Want to and Why We Probably Won’t

Arsenio Hall once told a joke about the double standards women experience when it comes to threesomes. In the monologue, he talked about revealing to a female friend that he always wanted to be with two girls sexually. When his gal pal stated she always wanted to be with two men he looked at her aghast and cried, “Slut!”

Indeed, when men hear other men talking about getting it on with two chicks it’s “raise your glasses in toast” time. However, when these same males discuss females who have indulged in double penetration, the not so imaginative labels come out. My theory—the response is either homophobic in origin or caused by a fear feminine sexual expression. Whatever the reason, one fact remains that every red blooded female who has had sex has wondered what it would be like to be sandwiched between two men who are stroking her fires simultaneously. This curiosity is very healthy, because, truth be told, the human animal is always contemplating ways to increase its own pleasure, especially sensually. Take my word for it, if a woman has come across a porno where some lucky lass is getting this treatment, she has put herself in that woman’s place wondering what sensations the woman was experiencing.

Will this event ever happen in real life? Probably not.

Now, I have done the threesome thing with me, my man and another chick—twice. Loved it! Not only did I get to explore my bi-curious tendencies, I did it with the blessing (and downright enthusiasm) of my partner. On the other hand, I just don’t think men are secure enough to get naked in front of another man or watch another man touch his woman in a sexual way while he watches. As much as I may desire this type of scenario, the reality is I know that emotional fallouts can ensue post coitus, especially if the deed occurred with individuals who knew one another well. The potential for an issue is great since women tend to want to be intimate with people they have some kind of history with. In other words, no girl is going to seek out two strangers to do something like this. Not only would that be dangerous sexually with so many diseases out there, it is dangerous physically.

Besides which—I am not too partial to the whole “backdoor” scene. I once saw a woman who had a tattoo on the small of her back that said “exit only”—my sentiments exactly. If I were to be with two men, it would end up being oral and vaginal—and little else. So, for me, double penetration is intriguing but I probably wouldn’t enjoy it much. Another woman might but sadly, she would be held back by the potential smear on her reputation. If we lived in a world that understood that a sexually responsible woman who takes care of her body and her partners still deserves respect, women may feel more free to explore things like double penetration and much, much more.

Unfortunately we live in a world where Arsenio Hall’s extremely entertaining and funny joke struck a chord with so many people because of how true and real the sentiments were....written by Alicia Norman



Are two heads really better than one?

Anyone who has watched porn or has seen still photos of two guys penetrating one vagina has to wonder about the physical practicality of this act. I’m thinking you need two guys who are engineer gymnasts to be able to do it where both can penetrate and hump deeply enough to achieve an orgasm. Not to mention the fact that most straight guys probably don’t want their penis touching another guy’s penis during sex. They also can’t be too big but long enough to be able to reach the vagina that evokes images of some kind of perverted game of twister.

The most common type of double penetration involves one guy in the anus and another in the vagina. This is physically easier than the scenario described above but most women I’ve talked too said that their guys love the idea of having two women but not too many like the idea of being in a two guy/one woman sexual romp at least when it comes to a guy’s wife or steady girlfriend. It’s a lot easier on a man’s ego for a couple of guys to pick up some woman deemed a “slut”, screw her brains out and know you’ll never see her again.

Watch any athletic contest and see that men are extremely competitive on the playing field. This same competitive spirit definitely extends into the bedroom. In general, men are extremely sensitive about the size of their members and few guys want to get into a situation where they look over at the other guy and realize that their own bat and balls belong in the little league.

Some guys, however, are definitely turned on by watching their woman get screwed by their best friend. Personally, my preferred form of double penetration involves one woman, me, and help from a toy, tongue and fingers. Having vaginal intercourse while stimulating my partner from behind with a vibrator or having anal sex with her while massaging her clit accomplishes exactly the same function as having some other guy play tail gunner with us. Besides, I never have to worry that she’ll dump me for the toy....written by Mike Matteo

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Role-Playing – How to Cheat with Your Lover

We all have sexual fantasies where recurring storylines and scenarios crop up every so often. Many of these erotic daydreams were cultivated when we were single and alone. Once we hook up, we don’t fantasize as much as we used to, especially if the sex is great and occurs often. Still, there is something powerfully titillating about being the sexy secretary who is pursued and sexually dominated by the sultry executive of a giant corporation. This is why role-playing can be a fun explorative tool for couples. With role-playing, you get to indulge some of those juice inducing fantasies with someone you would enjoy exploring them with. So many delicious scenarios exist in the realm of erotic role-playing which can be an extremely effective tool in maintaining sexual excitement, particularly with couples who have been together for some time.

Why is this?

Because role-playing can offer the variety that one feels they lose when they pair up. Your hot blond wife can become an enigmatic brunette. Your usually mild mannered hubby can be an aggressive and dominant adventurer who has whisked you away to ravage you. Essentially, it is almost like being granted permission to cheat – but with each other. The underlying undercurrent of your shared history will not detract from this; rather, it adds fuel to the fire to see your woman, so often playing the Mom or housekeeper, dressed in sexy stockings, lederhosen and pigtails.

I will admit, that my ever kinky self enjoys role play and light bondage themes. I am partial to vampire folklore, and luckily so is my hubby. I get turned on when he adopts a powerful somewhat dangerous demeanor and claims me with a fierce kiss – or rips off ye olde panties. It is such a huge departure from the calm, laid back sweet faced man who is a brilliant daddy and a loving son that it makes me ten times hotter than normal. All these things combine to create one helluva sensual experience that will leave your legs quaking and your passions smoldering. You will also end up connected on all kinds of spiritual and physical levels in ways that the tongue cannot even begin to describe -- believe me, I know.

Like any spice, role-playing can lose its flavor when pulled out too often. Indulgences are always best when they are occasional. Such tools are necessary, and alongside other things, like communication, electronic toys and sexy movies, can keep you craving the arms of your lover and establishing the variety necessary to keep your sex life alive and breathing....written by Alicia Norman



For most guys sex is a lot like watching a movie that you can’t wait to see. Previews entice you to eagerly get in line to purchase your ticket. On opening night you show up with enthusiasm and the desire to be pleasantly surprised. As the plot unfolds you attempt to predict what will happen next and become excited as the tension of each scene builds and you can’t wait to get to the climax. The second and third time you see it is still good but a little more of the mystique is gone and knowing how it ends curbs your zeal slightly. By the fiftieth time you’ve seen it, it’s kind of like watching Braveheart in Portuguese on a fuzzy broadcast TV with a commercial interruption every minute and a half. However, unlike watching movies that don’t change, sex doesn’t have to be redundant. That is why role-playing fantasies can really rekindle fire in the bedroom after the initial fascination and curiosity have petered out.

Personally, I love role-playing and fantasy games. Let’s face it, there are only so many sexual positions even if your partner is a nymphomaniac gymnast who is capable of doing a split while sucking a bowling ball through a garden hose. However, a person’s imagination is only limited by a person’s creativity.

I once dated a woman who said she had never had an orgasm with any partner. I found this to be curious and discovered that she had a little bit of a kinky side that involved her being a bit of an exhibitionist. One night a friend allowed me to use his bar after closing. I told my girlfriend that I wanted her to get up on the stage and strip for me as if I were a stranger. She did and by the end of the night she was so turned on that she had multiple orgasms. Each time we had sex I created new fantasy ideas that sometimes involved costumes, toys and new roles for us to play. The sex was phenomenal.

Sex begins in the mind before it ever gets to the genitals. Acting out a fantasy can release inhibitions and the best sex is definitely uninhibited sex. So get out your otter costume, some duct tape and play a fun game of park ranger and the naughty little otter....written by Mike Matteo

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I Touch Myself . . . And You Should Too

There is this crazy myth out there that most women don’t masturbate. Or at least not the “normal” ones. Pop culture has us thinking that masturbation is something that only horny teenage boys do. If this is true, then who’s buying the millions of vibrators that are sold every year? The answer is your coworkers, your neighbors and, yes, your girlfriend. However, masturbation doesn’t require any special equipment at all. I’ll be the first to admit that the only tools a girl needs to get to her happy place are her own fingers.

Women are pretty lucky when it comes to sex because we can pretty much always get some. (Don’t believe me? Walk up to ten guys and ask them to have sex with you. You usually get a yes from seven out of ten.) So why would a healthy, normal woman who can get attention from the opposite sex decide to take matters into her own hands, so to speak? There are lots of reasons. First of all, I already know what I like and how I want it. I don’t have to take time out of my busy schedule to explain how my vagina works. I can simply get in, get out and get back to my day. Also, as much as I love a good penis, the men attached to them can be pains in the ass sometimes. Getting my own rocks off means that I don’t have to deal with any unnecessary drama. And then there’s the fantasy factor. For some reason, men are cool with you calling out other people’s names while you’re in the middle of getting down. I can pretend I’m wherever I want to be and with whoever I want to be when I’m masturbating.

I think the world would be a better place if we all took a little time out of our days and masturbated. Touching yourself relieves stress. And it’s important to figure out what you like on your own so you can relay that information when you get the chance to play with others. Until then, turn the lights down low and let your fingers do the talking....written by P.S. Jones



Ah…..masturbation. My old friend. I think I have been whacking it non-stop since about 7th grade. It never gets old. I’ve even had sex, and masturbated later. Not because the sex was bad. I just got bored, or the girl on TV looked great. I think for me it can be a fantasy fulfillment thing.

I once read somewhere that if anyone tells you they do not masturbate, they are lying, with few exceptions. I think even if I was a priest, I’d still do it. Sure it’s a sin, but that’s what confession is for. I suppose masturbation can serve some higher purpose. I saw a book once titled “Self-Love,” and I considered picking it up. But then I thought that would be a copout. I should try and get laid and not use some BS concept of self-love to excuse myself the obligation to interact with the fairer side of the human species.

Sure masturbation is lots of fun, but you have to remember you can only get so far without a getting a partner. Something I have noticed, however, that seems to work in my favor in regards to my sex life….if I go a really long time without sex or masturbation, I find it difficult to stay aroused. I think maybe I forget how stimulating it is? I’m not sure. But, if I do it regularly, I find the little soldier is more alert. Perhaps it’s a placebo effect, but it works for me. Happy pumping....written by Faelan Blair

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