Hot or Not -- Porno Films

"I really like porno movies!" is a statement you probably won't hear from most women.

This is largely due to the fact that the fairer sex labors under the assumption that we are less inclined to be driven by our primal urges and thus have no need for such stimulation. Truth be told, this is a huge fallacy. Women obsess about sex as much as the next guy, but as one comedienne pointed out, we just tend to do it with costume changes. Our fantasies lean towards erotica, where tales of men with rippling biceps end with us sorta trying to resist, to no avail.

While I am a woman and I have had those types of fantasies, I also like to cut to the chase; this is why I am one of those rare few that will utter the above statement without shame. You see, it is my opinion that men and women alike are voyeurs at heart. Although ladies might hesitate to admit it, a good porno film tends to get us as hot as any romance novel. Why else would the sex lives of celebrities like Pamela Anderson or Paris Hilton enthrall us so much?

When all is said and done however, I wouldn't have paid a dime for a celeb sex vid. Call me kinky, but I tend to prefer amateur porn. Like an independent film, amateur porn is far grittier and raw, therefore, more real. It is like getting permission to peep inside a window to glimpse the forbidden—the bedroom of the girl next door—the schoolteacher—the pastor's wife—the hot, but supposedly frigid librarian.

While some videos can be seen as harmless manifestations of male fantasies, others can be extremely degrading, relegating women to mere objects for sex gratification. I have run across a few porn sites that proclaim things like, "Get laid by a Hot Latina by telling her you're INS!" This can take porn from a fun and healthy realm to a downright vulgar and mean spirited one. On the other hand, some porn stars, like Tera Patrick or Jenna Jameson, are actually masters of their own domain, in control of their own lives and careers which is the driving force behind feminism.

But this fact begs the question—why are men the main purveyors of porn in the first place? As a bisexual woman, I can easily answer that question. There is just something about femininity, and possessing it, that is especially arousing to a male. Couple this with the fact that men are essentially visual, highly sensual creatures and you have before you an instant billion-dollar industry; just add water. What I find most interesting about my penchant to indulge a naughty video or two, is that many of the men I dated loved the idea that I was so open minded in this regard. So much so, that they thought I would love a constant porno fest every time I wanted to get it on.

As I said before, I am still a woman—there is a time for a fast food burger, and another for a full four-course meal. In the final analysis, both men and women are sexual beings and for males, porn is their equivalent of the latest Danielle Steel novel, with all the boring parts cut out....by Alicia Norman



Some people are watchers... Some people are players. Watching porn to me is the equivalent of sitting in the stands at a big game and not being able to participate in any of the action. It absolutely does me no good to watch people on TV as they have the sexual adventures I should be out looking for myself. If you have to sit on your ass and watch porno, then you deserve to have nothing but your right or left hand at the end of the night.

Now, can Porno be used as a mood-maker??? I don't think so. NO!!! Women do not respond to porno like men do, and watching a hot blonde take the money shot in her face has never put my date in the mood to let me do the same thing to her. If anything, it only prompts an antagonized debate about whether porn is exploitation of women... and that is always a buzz-kill for any sexual mood.

There is women's porn, I know. Life is too short!!! You have to sit through 55 minutes of talking, kissing, groping, and more sensitive talking before you get 5 minutes of an intense mutual orgasm. Give me a break!!! I have never tried one of these on a partner, because I fear I may be lose my mood by the time it has an impact on her.

To me, porno is useless… unless you are actually starring in the film yourself... which I have had the pleasure of at least twice in my life. Nothing boggled my mind more than being videotaped having sex with a hot, sexy woman - about half my age - and then getting a check at the end of the night. Nice work if you can get it. It doesn't happen often, but when someone offers, take them up on it. Just wear a mask to prevent embarrassing your children and family.

I once had a couple come visit me in my hotel room, and they asked me to put on some porno to get them in the mood. I did, but before the opening credits were over - which in a porno is never too long - everyone had their clothes off, and the lady was busy creating a porno movie of her own... with her husband taping.

In my opinion, porn is way overrated. I have never really used it to enjoy myself, and it has never worked as a mood enhancer. You are much better off giving your female partner a bath with candles and champagne or a massage with fragrant oils to get her excited and hot. Pampering her and tending to her needs will get her a lot hotter than watching X-rated antics. So when you are looking for a mood enhancer... my advice is forget the porn and let the real games begin!...by Cliff Hodges

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